A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: i've just goten out of a really awkward relationship and i love being single the only thig on my mind is i cant be dealing with heartacke any more..but i recently have started colege again and my close friends ex is now one of my close friends..but i am really attracted to him..we mess around yee wrestle buh the other day he rugby tackled me and kissed me..i feel good in the fact..i really like him but awfuk that i dnt want to be hurt again even thought i want him that bad ..i could carry on just messing about..but whats the point in that..it would just be like going out but not actually..and my close friend knows even thougth its her ex, shes really happy buh then all of a sudden shes gone quiet..i asked him and he doesnt like her..nor she him..i feel really wierd about all this..but it seems like i've fallen for him badly..what should i do about my friend and how to carry on without wanting something that could end in heartache
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reader, tooconfused +, writes (15 September 2007):
the one thing i no is ur friend is just puttng on a brave face.......no man is worth more than a good friend so my opinion is to stay away from him.But if u genuinly feel like it could really go somewhere with him then ask urself what is more important ur friend or a relationship?i n wich i would choose without a doubt
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reader, L.O.S.E.R. +, writes (15 September 2007):
There was a similar question here few days ago and my reply was (now I'll paraphrase myself) "ex boyfriends of your girl (and boy) friends are not allowed";)Better quit it while you don't fall for him TOO much.If you love being single as you wrote my advice to you is: continue that till a guy UNconnected to your good friends comes along.
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