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writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months and now live together. I was bad one night and looked on his phone and saw lots of texts from his ex and even some naked pictures that she sent him. They have 2 children together and she lives1000 mile away, but I can't shake the feeling that I have. He swears up and down that he's over her and only wants me butSeeing the pics and all the texts it's hardFor me to believe! She sends him ones begging for him to go back to her and ones saying have a great day! I just want to know an out side opinion! Thanks
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reader, Rapgirl +, writes (14 September 2011):
Rapgirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you! You made me feel better! I am going to talk to him about it! :)
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (13 September 2011):
 Hi,
I know they have 2 children together, so they have to be in touch rather they like it or not. But, the conversations that they have, sending naked pictures, it's really unappropriated. I know that he cannot stop, control her sending text messages begging to come back, sending naked pictures, but he should tell her to stop. Explain that he's in a relationship.
It's not his fault that his ex is doing all that, but it's his fault to let it to continue. If they are divorce, what's the point? Stupid games? Why is he with you? Sorry, but I just hate lies, dishonesty, stupid games...
The only way to solve this is to tell him that you understand that they need to be in contact, because of the children, but explain to him that you cannot accept his ex behavior towards him. Tell him to make her stop, because you don't like, don't accept, it's not appropriate. Tell him that he needs to make his choice, and this should never happen again.
I hope you can work things out with your boyfriend. Just know that it's unfair to keep you in a relationship if these 2 are still playing games with each other. You deserve a honest, loving relationship. Someone that you can trust, make you happy, and not make you upset because of stupid things like that. You shouldn't worry about or have to wonder what if? Or are they? Right?
Good luck
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