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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I would appreciate some help. I am having difficulty telling a male friend that I have feelings for him above friendship and I am concerned that if I tell him it will put him in a very awkward position if he doesn't feel the same way. At the same time, my inability to comuunicate to how I really feel is driving me mad. Should I tell him straight and risk awkwardness between us or possibly us a mutual friend to find out how he feels? Reply to this Question
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (28 July 2007):
I personally would use a mutual friend - especially if it is someone that you can really trust. You certainly need to tell someone and a mutual friend would mean that if he wasn't interested you would not be jepodising your existing friendship with him.
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