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writes:my boyfriend and i have been seening each other now for a year and two months. this whole month of july him and i just argue, fight, not speak to each other and all that, and its starting to become a daily thing. why is that? am i doinq something wrong or not giving him what he wants? Reply to this Question
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 every relationship goes through a bad patch it just depends on whether or not your able to get through it or not id suggest talking to him about both of your problems be completely honest and try and resolve the problems
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): Hey, don't be so quick to blame yourself!
I'm sorry things aren't going so well between you and your boyfriend at the moment. But remember, relationships are a two-way thing. So this isn't about what you are doing "wrong".
It sounds like the communication between you has broken down. Is there anything in particular you are arguing about? Is there a main issue here, or are you just arguing over little, everyday things?
I think you both need to sit down together and talk. Not argue, but talk, and listen to each other. You need to find out what, if anything, is wrong. Is there something troubling him? Or it could just be that things are a bit stressful at the moment, and you are both letting it all out with each other.
So try asking him if he is okay, and if there is anything bothering him. How does he feel about all the arguing? But like I said, this is a two-way thing, so it isn't just about you trying to make the relationship work. He needs to make some effort too. Is HE giving you what YOU want in the relationship? Is there anything you think HE is doing wrong?
Try to get talking again, and hopefully you will both be able to sort things out. Good luck. x
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