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I'm afraid that this will ruin our friendship!!

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Question - (1 June 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *xcrystalbabiexx writes:

theres this boy. and he is totally amazing. hes deffinitley my bestest guy friend. i can talk to him about anything and everything and i love it. i love him sooo much and he loves me to. we both know how we feel abouht eachother but im afraid that if we start dating and something goes wrong it will ruin our friendship. and i cant let that happen. weve been best friends for 3 years and hes dated one of my girl best friends and it killed me inside lol i guess im a very jealous type of person. well n e way were inseperable and i dont want n e thing to change that but i kind of want to be more than just his best friend. hellp. x3

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A male reader, a-g55 United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2008):

a-g55 agony auntYou have 2 main choices. You can either be mrs nice and let it happen for thier happyness and just deal with the sufering.

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Get in there and tell him that you dont want him doing going out with your friend.... then he will say why. and you then say. coz im in love with you instead or whatever the hip american way is of saying it without bieng to mushy. even kiss him there and then. dont be afraid of him saying No or for you to back off coz what you will be doing is very hypnotic and if you set the lead he will follow. try it you have nothing to loose. its not like you not going to be friends after anymore! it wont get to that trust me and GO FOR IT!!!

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