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I'm afraid of people's motives when they touch me. Please help?

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Question - (21 May 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2007)
A male New Zealand age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have borrowed a strong feeling of scepticism towards the motives of people in the world outside. As if any move from them to getting close to me is viewed to be a threat on my own existence. Even a friendly touch or display of affection by them is viewed as bad and being done with some selfish motives. As if no one really showed selfless affection to me previously and hence have been living in my own nest of fear and scepticism towards the outside world. What if someone touches me physically and makes a sexual contact with me? Does it degrade my morality? Does it make me an incest ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2007):

well for starters 'incest' is having a sexual relationship with a close member of family - so unless that is the case then someone coming on to u is not incest.There is nothing to be ashamed of if someone wants sex with u - it is up to u if u want it 2 at that point.U may have personal or religious beliefs, but dont make the mistake of imposing them on others - they might not share your beliefs.If u do or dont - it doesnt degrade your morality.Just up to u really - after all sex is the most natural thing to do.Making love is different in its own way - but we are just talking sex here.

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