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writes:My friends and I always joke about being lesbian and bi(just little jokes), but we're all for gay marriage, etc. Now, after knowing my friends for years now, I realize that I like two of the same sex. I know one of my friends doesn't care who she falls in love with and I don't know about the other. I haven't told anyone that I'm bi yet, and I feel that if I did, I'd be treated differently, especially if I told them I liked THEM. I haven't told my mother or sister either. I'm afraid of their rejection. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): You are so young to be worrying about these things. It is great that you are thinking about them and accept yourself as you are. In a way I am sorry that you young people have to face these issues (I am so old!)and feel that you have to act on them. You don't. Relax, you are fine as you are. It may not be a good idea to mix the sex with your friendships because it is a very easy way to lose them. Chill out, you don't have to become a fully fledged sexual being yet. Take it easy and enjoy finding out who you are gently. The rest, love, life, work ,homes, children, marriage? can all come as they do.
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