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I'm afraid I'll lose his friendship if I break up with him.

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Question - (3 December 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female New Zealand age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi,

My boyfriend and I dated for four years but we have been having some problems. I have been going through a rough time in my life, and I've suddenly found myself seeing him in a different light. I care about him greatly but I've lost the feeling that he is amazing...and I've started to find flaws with him, from how he looks to how he acts! I almost feel empty in terms of my feelings for him. It also doesn't help that we live in different cities so I don't see him very often. I feel like the feelings I used to have for him are bottled up inside me somewhere but I can't seem to get them to come out. It just feels so frustrating, because I used to be head over heels in love with him. We even broke up a few times over this but we always get back together. He's the sweetest guy, and I know I do love him. But am I just afraid to lose his friendship if I break up with him? Or is there still something there that can be salvaged?

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