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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Do all girls get "pleasured" in the same way, or is everyone different...? I'm just wondering because I'm a very curious person. Anything would help me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, daletom +, writes (7 December 2008):
"DoubleM" has a good answer. You can make some general statements that apply to most people - but you are a specific person, not "most people". I hope that some day you and your lover have the experience of discovering and learning how to pleasure each other. I'm glad that my wife and I did that for about a year before we actually started having penetrative sex.
Magazines like "Redbook" and "Cosmopolitan" often feature surveys, articles, discussions and interviews about sex and lovemaking. Reading through several of those may give you enough to information to satisfy your curiosity. (You can pull a year or two worth of back issues at your public library and nobody will know why you want them.)
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (3 December 2008):
Every person is different. Some girls might like sex where the guy hits the lower part of the vagina more in missionary or doggy which hits the up. Some girls like their nipples touched others dont, some like clitor stimulation others find it to intense, ect ect the list can go on. So yes girls get pleasure in different ways
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (3 December 2008):
Girls are generally "pleasured" about the same ways, but the majority are usually not very well pleasured at all. Most guys are simply too selfish, uninformed and/or indifferent to make it consistently happen for their women. All the studies and surveys over the past 40 or 50 years bear it out. You should possibly check out this Web site's archives pertaining to cunnilingus, oral sex, clitoral orgasm, G-spot and a number of other terms to read a great deal of information. With all modesty (lol), check out my column. Read every contributor's input, both male and female, in order to review and gain from a variety of opinions.
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