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writes:Help im really nervous im going out with this girl tommorow and shes really nice :) her sister and her friend where talking to me and said "are you going to kiss her?" i am really scared because i want to and its my first time. She already has and i kind of said that i already have before we started going out so i didnt look like a jerk :P im afraid if i kiss her and i do it wrong shell think im a bad kisser :S Thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi i went out with her and didnt manage to sum up the courage :S im going out with her again. Any tips?
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reader, molly4  +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Some girls don't want to "make out" for the first kiss, but some do. Try a quick peck on the lips, then move in for more. If she pulls away, DO NOT try to kiss her more. If you forget this tip, don't become frustrated with her reaction. Simply back away and apologize like you mean it. Kissing during an on screen kiss during a movie can sometimes be a cheesy idea. Try doing it when you feel most in love. It is probably best done in a private place, so that you two feel more comfortable. Make sure your breath smells alright -- use mints or gum if you need to. (Note: sometimes the mints or gum may not be enough. In that case, try using a little peroxide before you brush -- don't forget your tongue. And make sure to floss regularly. Most of the time, these steps can eliminate the need for gum or mints.) If you have braces, make sure they're clean. Make sure she is ready for the feelings you two will have for each other knowing that you kissed. If this is your first kiss try kissing them on the cheek first. Occupy your hands, don't stand with your hands by your sides. Try putting them on her/his hips at first or gently holding her face. This can be very passionate. Avoid her bottom and breasts, unless you are very very sure that's what she wants and never in public. Shave your face before you go on the date. Most girls don't like the prickly feeling when you kiss them, unless she's one of those girls that love the facial hair. Most likely you don't know her well enough if you haven't even kissed, so be safe and shave your face. If it's cold outside, that is a great opportunity because then you have an excuse to hold her close to you. While you are holding her, be face to face with her and talk to her while your faces are kind of close to each other. That makes a great opportunity to kiss her.hope this helps!
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reader, LaKlutz  +, writes (27 March 2009):
I was on a date once and he was so nervous about kissing me that he decided not to. This made me feel as though he didn't like me. Since it's your first date and it's your first kiss, I'd suggest that you (if you decide you like her) give her a slow, soft, and closed-lipped kiss until you get more comfortable.
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