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writes: i dont no how 2 make out and i dont want 2 mess up i love this boy Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008): Just like the previous 2 commentors said, I didn't know what to do either, but it does come naturally. I agree with keeping your eyes closed, but don't squeeze them shut. Just have them lightly closed like when you are trying to fall asleep. You and this guy will soon find out how each other likes to be kissed. I love discovering what turned my girlfriends on. You don't always have to go for the lips either. I personally love getting kissed on the neck and my last girlfriend had a thing for her ears. Experiment once you feel comfortable. Other things to consider are you hands...keep them moving. Place them on his cheek or back of the neck or run your fingers through his hair (you can see if he likes to get his hair tugged from this position). As for the tongue, when that happens, don't let it sit there. You have to move it around. I go up and down. My ex did circles which absolutely made me crazy for her. Be sure to mix it up, too: light kisses, deep kisses without tongue, deep kisses with tongue. Have fun and don't forget to breathe!
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reader, MissUnique +, writes (29 November 2008):
Well... you can't really give advice on how to make out can you? My first time I had no idea but keep your eyes closed, otherwise it's just freaky...then if you're going to go further, like tongues, just...do it. When it comes down to the crunch, it's a lot easier than you would have thought. You get the hang of it and when you're not so nervous, it comes naturally. Don't be scared seriously, you'll be suprised, I mean obviously you get better after practice but it is easy. And good luck with the boy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): It comes naturally, there is no real right or wrong, so long as you're not sloppy or gnashy!!! Seriously my first, I wasn't clued up at all, when it came to it, it just sort of... happened!!! OK yeah so I've improved a bit since then but that's to be expected =]
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