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male
age
51-59,
*hymexycpl
writes: Ok, Im in 23 years in this relationship and have had alot of great years but the last 5 or 6 have been very on the line to be truthful. We have had our ups and downs but always try to meet in the middle but lately it is a tug of war in the sex dept. I dont seem to excite her in the same way I used to she says. I am not huge in anyway but make up in the trip downtown if you know what I mean. But my age and health have played a big part in my preformance and I dont know how to cope with it. I love her very much but think I might lose her to a younger and better model. She says its her but I know its a lie to make me feel better. What can I do at this point in my life I have tried viagra and toys where do I go now...Please help or advise what to do...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (20 February 2013):
Please tell us more about the "ups and downs".... Are they related to the sexual/intimacy "questions" that you have inferred in your submittal?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 February 2013):
what has she said to you to make you think she's not happy?
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reader, ginga ninga +, writes (20 February 2013):
whatever you do dont put pressure on her as you will lose her,just try stay focused and hope it will pass whatever is on her mind, or if you suspect her in having a affair then sit down and talk to her calmly but be prepared if she hasnt been doing nothing wrong to get a hard time, anyway good luck and keep us all informed:)
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