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writes:I need to work on myself big time im very insecure and just being insecure is driving me crazy. And my boyfriend.. I love him so much and we just had a baby girl 2 months ago. Having the baby led us to move back home because we want to save up enough money and get our own place but him moving back home around his old friends is worrying me big time considering he lives next door to one of his old friends that is a female and very pretty.. and they have alot of old memories.. even one time where they almost had sex but they didn't because his sister showed and the way he said it made me feel like he was disapointed about not being able to sleep with her. I think this might break us apart before we can even get our own place.. I told him i didnt want to know if he hung out with her because i didnt want to feel jelouse or worried that maybe something happened between them.I know my boyfriend loves me alot.. I just can't bring myself to think that he wouldn't sleep with this more attractive old friend.. What should I do to make myself feel better about the whole situation?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 November 2010):
 He has you and a baby, what more could he ask for? Nothing ever happened with this girl, and if he wanted it to he would still be with her trying instead of moving on to have a family with you. That's in the past, let it stay there. If you are truly that worried over it, do as Dirtball said and go over there and introduce yourself..bring the baby. Mark your territory so to speak. Who knows maybe you two can become friends?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (10 November 2010):
 Trust your boyfriend. Go visit him and introduce yourself to her along with your baby girl. Maybe if the mystery is gone you can relax.
Really, and you know this, this is your trust issue. It has little to do with him other than the fact you looked at his reaction as him regretting not having sex with her. While that may be true, it doesn't mean he'll act on that regret now. He has you and a new baby. His life doesn't include her and I doubt he's willing to jeopardize it over something from the past.
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