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female
age
26-29,
*weety123
writes:theres this guy who really likes me but he only wants to have sex with me like sometimes i want to then other times i feel kind of dirty talking to him because he will talk about all the stuff he wants to do with me. he is three years older then me and isnt in high school anymore but some of the things he said to me made me worried that if i end up doing anything with him and not want to go all the way he'll force me, he is always txting me asking me to meet him i dont know what to do. any advice is appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 Sweetheart, if you have even the least, smallest suspicion that this boy would not respect your boundaries, and would force you, or try to force you , to do some sexual act that you don't want to do... then the answer is simple and inequivocable : stay away from him like the plague. Cut contacts . You are flirting with something potentially dangerous- and very unpleasant.
Regardless of that, and making allowances for your young and naturally raging hormons , how come you are Ok with an older boy that only cares about you for talking dirty and using you as a prop in his sexual fantasy ? How come you don't see anything disturbing in that ? isn't it a bit too early to start letting men use you and exploit you ?
If you really must have sex ( which you don't , -I remind you it's against the law ) -then why you don't want it to be with someone who is in love with you ? Someone who wants to be your bf ?
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