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writes: i have a girl friend but she won't do anything with me and i love her lots and i want to have sex fun with her but she just walks away and i am getting very bored with her what shall i do???? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): I think that honest and open communication on the matter will do a great deal to help the situation. Your question doesn't give much indication of whether you have had a discussion about this, but consider that there may be a major reason why she doesn't want sex right now - maybe she's a virgin, or has been abused, or perhaps she just has hang-ups about her body. We women are complicated creatures, but one thing's for sure - if you ask us to open up our hearts (and listen to us with no judgements) that's usually all we need to tell you how we really feel. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): find out why she won't do anything with you. if she is just resisting a natural urge for some reason, then give her a chance to fullfill it. if she has no urge, ask if she wants to be with you. if you sense that she does not want to be with you let her go (nicely). a man should never remain with a woman who does not really want to be with him. if she does not want to be with you, let her go.found out the truth, then do the right thing.~M
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reader, love-him +, writes (12 June 2007):
Babe u gota learn not every girl wil jump into bed, even if you have been with her for ages.. giv er time n if ur not willin to ggiv er time then leav her cos u cant pressure her into out.. hope i helped mail me if u wana talk x x x
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