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anonymous
writes:is my bf ok? we've been dating for a year now i really do care about him and he loves me to death. but im just wondering, everytime we kiss and i mean each and every time the kiss leads to something else. when we kiss he always wanna "cum" then he wants me to be on top of him or he on me to "cum" he can neve let a kiss just stay a kiss. is he using me or what? the one time he did put it in but when i realised it's going to far now i stopped it coz i'm a v and felt something is going to brake now. so am i still a v or what did i loose it:( but i did enjoy it to feel him inside of me???????PLEASE HELP ME Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): I think it's great that you are trying to stay a virgin. Technically, when he put it in, you lost your virginity. But if your hymen is still intact then no one can tell!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him your limits. If you do not want to have intercourse you need to let him know, "I am not interested in sex but I do like when you touch and kiss me".
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Well... men are really really sexual beings. Having said that, he is just probably horny all the time he is around you! Have you tried to talk to him about this?
If you want to have sex with him, then thats your prerogative but you should state, very clearly, that you are not always up for fooling around and sex and he should be able to respect that. For us, having a romantic kiss is very desirable, and it doesn't necessarily lead to sex, whereas they are all over sex most of the time. So, as you should learn to understand his feelings and needs, he needs to learn and understand yours. You'll just have to teach him!
Good luck!
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