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writes:I am 14 and I'm single my parents say i have the package beauty and the brains I'm a straight A student is there something wrong with me? Guys should like me right? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2013): Do you feel like a total package, maybe it's just me but being aware of that might come accros a little conceited and you may look to the same standards in your relationship, if you are a total package. Personally i'd wait for comments like that from guys who want to go out with you instead of thinking it yourself
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2013): You CAN ask guys out, you know.
Guys are shy too so if you want someone, ask them.
They'll thank you.
If you have the double BB combo don't forget to keep
your head on your shoulders. As you get older your mind will develop and your self-awareness will increase. Your self-confidence will increase as well. You will realize that your current anxieties are trite.
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reader, llifton +, writes (14 November 2013):
 you sound like a great catch! are your parents okay with you dating? are you ready for dating?
if so, i'm sure some guy will be very lucky to have you! :) just make sure you're ready. that's the most important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2013): Chill out ma dear, what's for you won't go past you :) you also have loads of time to play this game! As other answerers have said, boys at age 14 are pretty immature, and some may feel intimidated by your qualities... Make sure you're as smiley/friendly as possible to show you're a human being :)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 November 2013):
 Assuming there are guys who are intelligent and aware enough to appreciate you., I doubt there is more than one or two in your social circle.
Don't worry too much, if you are all that and a bag of chips you'll be just fine. I know it's hard to think about the long game at age 14 but honestly and truly, be your fine wonderful self and a really great guy will come along when it's time.
P.S. When I look back in time and think about the 14 year old guys in my social circle when I was 14, um, well, they were kind of clueless. They are like 2 years behind the girls and oh my god, they were so dorky! (Sorry, guys.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2013): Take it down a few notches. Add personality and patience.
You're not guaranteed nor entitled to anything based on your looks; and if you're smart, you would know this already.
If you come across conceited and thinking you've got everything boys should like; perhaps you're learning fast.
Don't take your parent's appreciation for your achievements and your good-looks too seriously, and don't let it go to your head. It may be just the thing that might be getting in the way.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 November 2013):
Is there something wrong with you? From the two sentences you wrote, I'd just say that you worry too much. At you age guys are very timid, and sometimes the more "desirable" you are, the more they avoid you because they think you wouldn't like them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2013): You're fourteen, they should start getting interested around fifteen that's when guys start waking up and wanting girlfriends.
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