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age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why do Guys keep hurting me like this? I feel like I'm not good enough:(?I've never had a relationship where the guy didn't break my heart.I'm 23 and all the guys I've been with have taken advantage of my feelings used me and dumped me and have moved on with their lives.In all the relationships I loved them, treated them with respect and gave them everything. I was honest, loving, loyal. I work out to maintain my figure I do everything a good gf does when I'm in a relationship.All my friends say I'm a lovely girl. They say I'm gorgeous, sweet and a nice person but I think maybe theres something wrong with me. Some of my guy friends thinks I'm an angel.My ex dumped me saying he wanted to be single but went of with some one else but came back when it didn't work out with the other girl and as the nice person I am I took him back and he dumped me a week later.I feel like theres something wrong with. Why do I keep meeting these cruel guys. They all seem sweet at first they get in my head and hurt and they break me:(I've signed up to a dating site now and I get a lot of messages from really nice guys but I get scared cause I can't help thinking the next guy will hurt me just like the others did.I feel like maybe I'm not good. Enough cause if I was as gorgeous and as sweet as everyone says I am then why do guys keeps leaving me:(I just want some to love and be loved back.Has this happened to any of you girls? (I'm actually crying as I type this).
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 you are attracted to the wrong types. jerks that act like nice guys. these types of guys know how to work a girl, and get what they want. once they get what they want, and they get tired of the girl they are off to the next adventure.
these type of guys are after sex, to be blunt.
i you are giving them sex, you are giving them what they want. once they get tired of you they are off to someone else.
if you are giving them sex you are giving yourself cheaply, and they know that. by doing that you are drawing the wrong type of guys to you.
have self respect don't give in to sex with guys, and the wrong types want hang around long ( they will see they are not going to get what they are after, and will look some place else.)
it seems to be true nice girls are attracted to bad boys, jerks,players. those types pray on good girls.
good guys are out there , you just need to weed through the trash. have self respect, commit to the future, don't sell yourself short ( don't give in to these guys).
a man that is interested in you will be giving, not taking, not self centered. look at the character of the guys you see, watch for bad character traits, and look for good character traits from a guy.
i wish you the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): The message going out is that you are acting needy.Makes guys run.Most good girls are attracted to jerks.Jerks always sound nice they are good at it.If a con artist was obvious would anybody got conned. It's when they change their minds and dump you then they reviel that they are jerks.
YOUR CONFIDENCE IS LOW.You are also sounding insecure,Look for ways to build yourself up without a guy.Special interests.Although Guys interest will give you a quick boost most guys will lose interest once the challenge is gone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): im a guy (not gay) and i think guys are overly mean today there nothing wrong with you it us males who need to be nice and loving
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reader, Deagan +, writes (8 May 2012):
 It's hard to say. You seem so sweet. Maybe you're going for the wrong guys. Guys like confident, tough girls. Guys like the chase involved in getting one of those girls. Be the tough independent girl that doesn't need a guy- that seems to make the world of difference. Your inner confidence will radiate to those all around you.
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