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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a bit confused and worried, I am seeing someone, we are still new to each other and we haven't made action, but we told each other we love each other and we get along well. but here is the problem we can't find the space to be together(the time and especially the space). at her place her elders will refuse, its another thing, I told her that I have my own room outside the house that we can use to be together but the problem is My mother stays at home she doesn't know her son hanging out with girls or dating, same goes to all of my family members, of which yes I have never had a serious girlfriend. but I would prefer if she would come to my place than to walk around with her on the streets. I want to know how can I break it to my mother about me seeing her and inviting her at my home, not to mention she is a girl who has a child what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2012): You shouldn't be worried about your mother your an adult first off and you should tell your mother by youself and let her know you met a girl who you really like and things are getting serious and she has an amaing kid just brag about the kid when your mom says her kid or something say yes she might get mad but you need to remind her it may sound crazy but there both amazing and your an adult and if you could know your mothers not disappionted it would make you feel better and you didn't want her to find out another way except from you she might not like it but your her son she will get over it or she might not mind since now adays everyones getting prego in high school just saying its a different life then back wen and your mom should understand don't bring ur gf around just have a heart to heart with your mom! Wish you the best of luck
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