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30-35,
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writes:Im a Lesbian, but I want to fuck a guy. I have never been with a guy in my life, so this is wierd, I just have these urges to be with a guy... I kinda know him, but I really dont care, its not about him, I think I might be curious, who knows, maybe I wont feel this way in a little bit, maybe I will.. idc... idk what to do.. im dating a girl, but I dont want her all of the sudden... i have always been known for being this major lesbian, I didnt see this comming...i dont want to lose my virginity and tell every1 im bi, and then be like, nvm im still lesbian.. ehh.. maybe it doesnt matter... idc.. but anyways what should I do?
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (10 July 2008):
 You know, usually people have experimented with both sexes before knowing their sexuality. Even then, you're still young and you won't be completely positive until you're much older.
There's nothing wrong with wanting to sleep with a guy, you have nothing to lose at your age and it's fine to be curious.
But since you do have a girlfriend, I'm not going to tell you to go for this guy right away. Unless you really don't want to be in this relationship anymore, then it would be best for you to break up with her and see what happens.
Hope this helps!
xo
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (10 July 2008):
 Hey sweet,
You are so young and very few people are 100% solid in their sexuality until they're older anyways. I seriously think that if you are getting curious about being with a guy, you are young and have nothing to lose by getting to know a fella.
HOWEVER. You do have a girlfriend, and I think that while it is natural to be curious about sex with another person, while you are dating you should be fully committed to your significant other. So, lend that concentration on your sexuality with others and give that attention to your girlfriend. If you really feel like this urge is getting in the way of your relationship, break up with your current girlfriend first and then see what single life brings you. May be a fella, may be a lady who you connect differently and/or better with.
Good luck, sweetness!
xx India
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