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writes:Hello, I have quite an embarrassing question! I'm a bit of a late-starter, no particular reason, just never really met the right person at the right time. Anyway, I'm now seeing this great girl and I think we will soon start having sex. I just have one question from a completely practical point of view. What happens afterwards? What should I do with the condom? Do I take it off immediately? Wrap it up? Put it in the bin, down the loo? Should I ask her? We'll probably be at her house. I'm sure this sounds like a really daft question but I just don't want to make myself look silly!
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reader, oxxvickixxo +, writes (16 July 2008):
Dont throw it in the toilet!!
My ex done that and it wouldn't flush!! do you really want to be like him?? having to scoop a used condom out a toilet lol.. nope didnt think so!!
Just wrap it up in something and bin it, thats the best option!!
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reader, SamuraiRick  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 What you want to do is destroy the evidence and do it cleanly. Throwing it down the Loo..they call it a toilet in my parts is probably the best thing to do. But if you do this at your home... and do it a lot, you are looking at a potential jam in your sewars. Imagine the embarassment on your face when your plumber yanks out a pile of rubbers to fix a clog. Yes this can potentailly happen!!! Condoms are made to last and not quickly biodegradable!
So the the next best thing you do is throw it away. Wrap it up in tissue and toss it. The sooner its in the trash the better. And then throw out the trash.
Now the next thing you should know, as a guy, is that you dont want to leave your seed laying around her place. Its messy yucky, and she wont appreciate it, no matter how hot it was at the time... There's nothing wrong with running it under a sink to clean it out before tossing it.
Its your condom and its your reponsibility to take care of it when your done, not her. Any woman who would voluntarily want to dispose of it herself I would question... Is it possible in this evil world she might try to use the sperm and use it to make you a daddy? It sounds crazy and preposterous, but you never know... If she takes the condom puts it in a baggy and places it in a freezer sound the alarms! Red alert!
So my ultimate word of advice is whatever you do YOU handle it not her. She should be comfortable with it. But if you throw it down the loo, ask her first.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 yeah when you are done with the condom wrap it up in tissue and throw it in the bin. try having a box of tissues beside the bed or something so you dont have to get out of bed after. just dont put it down the toilet!!
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