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writes:What is it that women find attractive about men? People always see me as a nice guy but I have heard that women prefer someone who is strong and sensitive. I always see "bad boys" with women that I know are fairly shy and sweet. Am I just doing something wrong cos I see myself as attractive but can't hold onto women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): Well attraction is relative to the person being attracted with. There are so many factors, and of course, physique being the major component in initial attraction. Second and equally as intensifying as physique would be the 'aura' surrounding you. Is there a strong, confident, experienced, possibly wise expression that illuminates from you, or are you just like the more common men out there? How do you hold a conversation? When you speak, is it clear? Does it channel across a room or does it get diluted in a simple environment? When you sit down, or stand up, or lean against something, do you look like a lazy person, a regular Joe Schmoe, a playboy, athlete, or a corporate executive?
How do you express yourself? Are you a natural, or are you premeditated? Is your sincerity direct, or is it riddled with ulterior motives?
Again, though some women prefer a certain look and masculinity, others may prefer completely different things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006): I dont think hat the problem is with you its just generally women they are very nit picky with things they want saying that from personal experience when im with my fiance and he does these really embarrasing things it kind of makes me feel a bit sick and leave him. personally needy men are a big no no if ur the type of man that maybe change the little things stop being such a fanny and grab the next appropriate women and tell ur gonna make her day .
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2006): I wouldnt worry. Your perfect woman will come running once she has had her heart broken. Your time will come.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (11 June 2006):
 Hi sweetie,
Well its true what you say most women are attracted to bad boys who will one day break there hearts but there are some sensible women out there in this world to and the only way you are gonna find miss right honey is purely by being yourself don't try to be something your not just to land yourself a date cause that will end in tears, you are who you are and once you accept this inside you will portrait a much more self confident person who any women in her right mind would be happy to date and have fun with.. so all i'm saying is be happy with who you are and you will find what your looking for honey ;o) cause me and all the other aunts who have answered think your a real sweetie....
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation sweetie and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2006): Just be yourself. Most women like a man to 'be himself' - if you're trying too hard to be someone you're not normally its obvious and its a turn-off. If you just be yourself, show the real you, a woman will fall in love with that real you when you least expect it. Hopefully, anyway. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2006): hey nothing wrong with being too nice. i love and dig men who are like that. what i hate the most is men who can be too korny or too cheezy. you could be too nice, like i said nothings wrong with that, but try not to be too korny or cheezy and say stupid stuff like "you're so radiant and beautiful like the stars above" yuck! i hate that. I like a guy who is fun and spontaneous and who can be agressive at times also. What i mean by agressive is that i like it when i give him a signal for him to make a move and he takes charge and gives me his all! I love that worm feeling in his arms. Just read her sign language and take it from there, then you'll know what she likes and doesnt like about you. hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2006): well where have u been all my life? joking.....real women want a nice sweet, confident and curteous man. maybe ur being to nice and that's when women think he's too good to be true and back away. I suggest just be urself and the right woman will come along when ur not expecting it.good luck.
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