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writes: they say that true love means letting go of sum1 you love but i can't seem to get him out of my mind, i still love him . . . . please help me ??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (13 June 2006):
 Honey, you don't get your true love out of your mind. You are going through a mourning process that comes with the end of a relationship. You probably want to know how long this process will take. No one can tell you how long, but I can tell you that eventually the mourning process does come to an end.
This may not seem possible right now, but in life you meet a number of people that are your "true loves". I don't believe in this notion that there is a "one and only". I don't believe in the notion because among my friends are kindred spirits; with each of these kindred spirits I share a deep relationship and a connection that I know goes beyond friendship. They are the foundation upon which my life is built.
If you want to get over this failed relationship then I suggest you put your energy into your kindred spirit relationships. As true friends these people will feel your pain and will want to see you through this mourning process.
Finally, you cannot see the future right now except for what could have been. None of us knows what can happen tomorrow - the possibilities are endless. The trick for you is to be able to once again see those endless possibilities. You will get there if you persevere. I got there, and one day so will you. Good luck and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): Hi, my first ever bf was my true love and we did get back together and it lasted four years and we have now split up again, i still believe we are soul mates but sometimes you have to let go and even though it hurts like hell it will get better x
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reader, Smiler +, writes (11 June 2006):
 Hey there
Well i don't think you can ever let go of true love its always there in the back of your mind but you will kinda move on from it when you are in another relationship and trusting someone else with your heart strings, but they say time heals honey all can advice you is that this is very true... you will get over him one day and move on to find the man of your dreams that is how the world turns :o)
I hope my advice was able to help you out with your situation sweetie and good luck with this... if you ever need a friend or a chat or just more advice don't hesitate to email me sweetie, I would love to hear from you again and know how you got on... Remember i'm always here for you anytime ok
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (11 June 2006):
 Hi,
I agree with my fellow agony aunt/s. You can never let true love go, but you can try to get it back. Try to re-gain it. Why did you let him go in the first place? Reflect on this. There are three options:
1) dwell on this, never move on and find yourself alone.
2) try to get your true love back and live happily ever after.
3) try to get your true love back, fail and move on with your life (and possibly find someone you love even more)
Hope this helped,
Phoebe
xxx
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (11 June 2006):
 I dont think you can ever let true love go, it just becomes more bearable over time.You need to try to occupy yourself as much as possible.Why do you need to let him go?
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