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writes:Hey everyone. So this is a bit of an embaressing question, but hopefully you can give me some advice. I've just turned 16 and im still a virgin, but I'm really worried about having sex for the first time. I'm seeing this really lovely guy at the moment and I really want to have sex with him but I'm just totally freaking out. Does it hurt a lot the first time? And what if he thinks my body is really disgusting? And is pubic hair a real turn off? I shave my bikini line but should i wax it all off or something? Ahh, help please??!
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (6 November 2010):
I really think you should wait and stay a virgin as long as possible honey! But, it is your decision. Here are some tips:
1. Make sure you are in an exclusive relationship with him
2. Always, always use a condom
3. Be fresh and clean
4. Do not do anything you do not feel comfortable with
Im stopping there because I do not feel comfortable with you having sex so young. You will feel better in the long run if you wait.
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reader, Odds +, writes (5 November 2010):
 I'm told it hurts a bit. Just be sure to ask the guy to go really slowly. If he likes your body when you're wearing clothes, he will like it at least that much naked - probably more. Going completely shaved below is great for some guys; others prefer a little hair. Pubic hair is fine if you keep it trimmed; no matter what he prefers most, he won't be bothered by a little trimmed hair.
Be certain that you are emotionally ready before you have sex with him, and be certain to use protection.
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reader, Redd_Extacy +, writes (5 November 2010):
 I'm 18 nd I was 17 Wen I lost mine.it hurts but not to the point where u want tu cry about..and my guy was very big.just tell him tu work it in slowly and take things one piece at a time..make sure he's tha one because once its gone,yu can't get it back..some guys like pubic hair and some don't lol just ask him..I hope I helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): Hello, don't worry, you will know when you are ready for sex, just because you are 16 and have not had sex isn't the end of the world! You should wait until the right person comes along and makes it for you, you don't want to lose your virginity to just anyone, make it count as something xxx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Hi we all get really stressed out about our first time it is natural to feel nervous, but with all these questions you have you need to ask yourself the main question and that is are you ready to have sex?
I think you should start of with getting intimate with each other before having sex like using your hands on each other, this will get each of you prepared for sex.
If you are thinking he is going to be disgusted with your body then you obviously dont feel comfortable around him yet which is a sign that you might not be ready. We all have body issues but believe me the first time you have sex with him he wont be thinking you are disgusting believe me.
Its your choice if you want to wax your pubic hair or not he isnt going to find it repulsive, its all natural but its up to a girl herself if she wants to remove the hair or not. Men dont tend to really mind.
Ok so no point in lying it is a little uncomfortable the first time and there is usually a little spotting of blood, but its not really painful just a little bit sore but it gets better, try using some lubrication for the first time because you probably wont be wet enough with you being nervous.
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