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writes:im 32 and have been in a relationship for 5 years. we have no children but have just bought a house 2gether.Our relationship has not been good for a long time but I've just carried on.Recently ive met a lad though a friend of mine hes only 20 but my feeling for him are so strong and he says he feels the same way about me. i cant stop thinking about him and want to be with him. im so confused and unhappy at the moment, i feel like my whole world as been turned upside down.i dont know wat to do. my friends say why move in with someone u dont want to be with, can i really give this up now?why is life so hard? Reply to this Question
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reader, ANGIBABY +, writes (7 August 2007):
ANGIBABY is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everybody for there comments. im going to give it 6 months living with the fella im with now, if it doesnt work then sell up. i agree with hlskitten and he is abit to young to give everything up for, so i think im just going to have to try and treat this as just abit of fun and enjoy it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): I think the only thing you can honestly do is to go with your heart. Your mind is obviosuly telling you one thing, to stay with this guy, but your heart is telling you to leave for the one you love. Am i correct? Ask yourself this, and then you should know the answer..
Do you really love the man your with now?
Would you do anything for him, and make any excuse to see him?
If the answers no, then i suggest you seriosuly consider your options. Its not fair to keep your relashionship with this guy, espically if you have feelings for another.
Good luck, Don't stay with someone just for the sake of it.
You should be with someone out of choice, not becuase you feel you have too.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Guys of that age that go for older women, tend to be the most immature of guys ever. They are looking for someone mature to take care of them. Mother figures. Bad basis to get into a relationship. I was 31 when i met a 22 year old. Great 2 years with him, but very up n down and i definately knew it wasnt gonna be a lifetime, even though they are so young they think they want YOU for a lifetime. They have good intentions though i guess at the time. We split 3 years ago (my choice) and hes a great guy but still pulling his way through the 30/40 somethings in the club and not settling down to this day. When you're 40 hes gonna be 28? I dont think so. so if you're only after some fun after splitting with the guy you live with, go for it.If you dont love the guy you live with i would definately get out of it.C xxxxx
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