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writes: I have been with my gf for about 6 months and I want to break up with her for no reason but i dont want to hurt her feelings. How do I break up with her without hurting her feelings, so much? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): Well I wouldn't tell her that you're doing it for no reason! That's sure to confuse her a bit and she's going to spend ages wondering what she did wrong by you. If you really must break up with her then give her a good (and factual) reason for it. You can't really help hurting her feelings, it's going to happen either way.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 August 2007):
What do you mean by not having a reason? You must have some reason you want to break up! If you can't give a reason of some kind it will be harder on her. If you don't want to tell her the real reason, then just tell her you need some space and don't want to be tied down or obligated to anyone at this time. Honesty is always the best policy however.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): There is no possible way to break up with your g/f without hurting her feelings. My advise to you is to be honest with her as to why you are needing your space right now. It is better to be happy and free than to be unhappy in a relationship. Your feelings are numero uno at this point, but be sure thiws is what you want. If you break up with her than mean it, don't play games with her heart. You both deserve the best!!
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