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I'm 28, he's 16. He says we're just mates, can i change his mind?

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Question - (25 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *endywuwu writes:

Im a 28yr old woman in love wit a 16 yr old guy. Is it wrong? we are great mates an have been intimate for a few months now but he says we just mates but tells me he loves me. can i change his mind if i play it cool?

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A female reader, mighty.leaf United States +, writes (2 February 2011):

I don't think there's anything wrong with it if you're both "mature" (or have your own minds).

Why would you want to "change his mind" about something he doesn't offer freely?

Either he wants to or doesn't. Same goes for you.

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A male reader, DJ8433 United States +, writes (26 August 2007):

DJ8433 agony auntIf it's legal in England for him to have sex with you, enjoy the sex while you can. It's temporary.

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A male reader, somewhat_anonymous United States +, writes (26 August 2007):

Um...he's probably a confused teenager. You should probably find someone more your age. Think about it, haven't you matured a lot in the 12 years since you've been sixteen?

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