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writes:Should i welcome each girl that is now trying to talk to me with caution? I'm very skeptical and always have been skeptical regarding women in my life. Now girls are now coming out of the woods all of a sudden asking for things? I got a whole new make-over and i finally love myself for being able to graduate from college and own my home. Now girls who never noticed me are asking if they can come over to throw a house-warming party?? Its not even their house!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): You know the truth already. Why are you even asking this question? These women are after one thing only: the contents of your wallet.
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (18 September 2011):
 Hi,Funny... As sad as it sounds, it's true. I am older than you, live in different country, but it's the same thing here. When I was in high school, college, I noticed that the pretty girls were popular, and guys, not so much about good looking, but how they dress, what kind of car they drive made them popular. Most of my male friends drive, BMW or Benz , not so much about looks, but they all dress well, and they always have women dropping like flies. Specially when we go out places, the women seem to always look, give extra attention, even when we are behind red light it's amazing how many women look. I know, so stupid, but this is what life is, what people become, so materialistic. I am just sharing my story so you would know, and understand. I don't want you to feel insecure, or have no trust in people. My point is, don't be surprise, or scare by people reaction, or reality. It's not a big deal, also know that there are many nice, smart, caring, honest people out there. Congratulations on you make over, new home, graduating college, and being so successful in such a young age. So far, you are doing very well, and be proud. Don't worry too much about dating, if you like someone, just ask her out. You need to go out, have many different experiences, get to know the girls before you make any judgment. I am sure you will find someone special that deserves you. Good lick
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011): Ah, you SHOWOFF. He! He! He! CONGRADULATIONS. You have succeeded where most of us guys have failed. That is becoming a MAN. Doing what most of us guys were suppose to be doing in our late teens throughout our twenties, establishing ourselves as MEN in our society. Instead we destroyed our credibilities & reputations as men partying & womenising & when the fun was over, we wasted our lives again trying to rebuild them plus cleaning all the other mess that we created in those youthful years. But by the time we finally sorted out those mess, we became old & suddenly we realize that our achievements in life don't seem meaningful because they don't matter much to us as old men.
In your youth, you recognize your responsibilty to yourself as a man by putting woman business aside & focusing fully on developing your skills & knowledge that has now translated into a career & material success. Before, you were just another college boy on Daddy & Mommys' tuition & for pocket money flipped burgers. Not so cool with the ladies. Fast forward & now you're this professional with your own pad & a cool ride & suddenly, all of them start taking a second look at you.
Women take you seriously now because they know that you have POWER. You are in CONTROL of your life. YOU ARE A MAN. Now you can have ANY woman you want. With a snap of your fingers, they shall respond with lightning speed. Now you realize what true success is because you got your priorities right by thinking like a man & not allowing women to rob you of all your energy emotionally in your youthful years.
Succeeding in life as a man brings all kinds of previledges & one of them is the attention of women. You see women are not the means to your success AS A MAN but are the ends to it. Your patience & sacrifice has paid off. But before you start having fun with women, you must pay tribute to those who were directly involved in making you become the man you are now. HONOR YOUR PARENTS ONE LAST TIME. By a gift (maybe a piece of Jewelry) for your mom & thank her for being the one that nurtured you as a child. Get something for your dad as well or help him out with something he always wanted to do or buy & thank him for being the compass of your life, teaching you what it means to be a man. Do this tribute thing with your parents in your new crib instead of a house warming party.
You have done what you needed to do & have established yourself already as a man. All you have to do now is look for that beautiful young 19 year old virgin woman to marry, have lots of kids with, who will contribute to your further success & will add that extra touch of flare to your BMW when she sits beside you on the passengers seat.
YOU DESERVE IT.
I SALUTE YOU.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 September 2011):
 You're a college graduate, home owner, and a proud Beamer owner.. I'd say you have a lot to offer a woman.
Be picky about who you date if these women are truly lining up around the block to date you. Weed the bad apples out of the good ones.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 September 2011):
 You've become attractive (for various reasons, it could be as simple as you learning to love yourself), so what is wrong with enjoying the attention and maybe finding love?
Stay a little sceptical, that is fine, but don't rob yourself of the chance of finding someone to love. By the way, if girls want to throw a house warming party that is a nice gesture, not something to be offended by. As you socialize more you will learn more of the social rules. Try to relax a little and enjoy the company!
But, don't give away money (don't ever loan out money that you can not afford to give away) or do too many favours. Continue to take care of yourself and open up to people.
If a girl falls in love with you, you can ask her why she wants to be with you, and then you will hear the truth about what she sees in you, without having to wonder.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 I know it looks bad... it plays right into the "shallow, materialistic girl cliche" but honestly dude, it ain't the BMW that's making these women suddenly come out of the woodwork.
"i finally love myself"
BAM!!
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