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writes: Hello Folks- I am a 24 male virgin! that got your attention did'nt it!! A bit of background I have kissed quite alot of girls in the past, as well as finger popping and eating out a couple- its just that i've never actually ended up having penetrative sex! As odd as it may sound, its never really bothered me but lately it does seem to be on my mind a bit, thinking actually i'm not getting any younger.If im honest with myself I think ive been just kind of putting it off because of anxiety about not doing it right or being embarrased about never having 'done it'! Obviously this isnt going to get any better with time! By now you are probably thinking damn he must be some kind of freak but genuinely I am just an average guy ,no male model but pretty good looking! with lots of good friends and a decent social life.Im off to do some travelling soon so know that chances for sex are most likely to happen but I now seem to have built up a bit of a complex about being able to get things to 'rise and stay raised' if ya know what I mean!so basically I am just looking for people's ideas and advice on how to keep a calm head just let things happen as nature intended?? What did you do to stay relatively in control on your first time??Any insights will be appreciated - cheers! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007): hey my first time was the worse i couldnt get it in so dont think u have problems ;) but try to stay away from alcohol
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2006): Just get to it. Don't worry about performance for the first few times chances are you will be crap just like everybody else's first few times. I mean that everybody is crap the first few times and most people are finished before they even got started. haha LOL i'm not ashamed you can work on that with practice. Your traveling, great go for it and if your crap move on :-) practice make perfect don't forget your rubber friends and hey have fun laff and dont worry whats the worst that can happen.
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