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I'm 23 and still a virgin. I don't know much about sex.

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Question - (4 May 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i'm 23 and still a virgin. I don't know much about sex. i am looking for someone to tell me about sex. never had a girlfriend and never even fooled around with one. Please Help me!!!!!!

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A female reader, Lajqi8 United States +, writes (22 July 2008):

I just turned 22 and just lost my virginity a few months ago. No one knows anything about sex when they first start having it. only thing is, when you do get to a point where you think you may lose your virginity, don't lie about your non-experience, I made that mistake, but not much later, decided to tell the truth. Honesty is the key. Good luck to you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008):

I guess what I want to know is what's it like? Will it hurt? should i maybe try masturbating before i've had sex?

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2008):

Many people get the impression that there a certain things that need to be done, but truth is there isnt.There isnt a manual given to everyone, its all just down your natural instincts, what feels right.Once you're in the position to have sex it just happens naturally.

If you really want to get a perspective on sex there are lots of books and websites available.

Well done for not being pressured into sex before now aswell, so many people lose their virginity in meaningless scenarios.

Good luck

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A male reader, Denzil United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2008):

Im 22 and a virgin so your not alone, i havent fooled around. Ive had gf's but never got as far as sex i was scared. That myth where everyone has had sex before isnt always true. Being a virgin is ok, theres someone out there for everyone

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008):

What exactly is it that you want to know about sex? Please specify, and then we could help you further :]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008):

Hi Hunny

Ive found you a link hope this helps, Everyone is different sweetheart, It comes naturally when you meet the right person good luck....

http://www.goodtoknow.co.uk/relationships?pkw=sex_advice&gclid=CIr0mb7cjJMCFQl3MAodwBLwZA

TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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