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writes:Ok, this is very embarrassing for me but it's something that bothers me......alot! I am 23 years old and don't know how to give a blow job for the life of me. I have had relationships in the past and they have never mentioned it, but i know myself i can't do it and it makes me feel really insecure. I want to pleasure them but for some reason i just have no idea how to do it. One lad i was with for 3 years was brilliant, i would never go down on them because i was embarrassed, he was so sweet and although he asked for it alot i think he knew my concerns and never forced me. Now we are over and i am single, looking to date again but i am terrified of doing so as i know that oral is going to be involved. Anyone out there that can help me please???
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): You should check http://www.howtogiveabj.com for more information. It's pretty random, but there are a lot of good tips on giving good head
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Dear Poster
You have received great advice from the uncles and aunts. If you want more detailed information, you are welcome to send me a private message; I do not feel comfortable putting all the detailed info on the site.
Fellatio is a great sexual activity and once you have the confidence you will enjoy it with the right partner.
Best wishes; keep us posted.
Always keep SMILING.
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reader, Deema +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Well done the boys!!!! Think you should get all the info you need there. You go girl !!!
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Why not try to download a movie about it?
Porn is not only made for pleasure, it can sometime be for studies of sexual fantasies/positions.. etc or to give you an idea of what to do in certain situation.
I think it would be easier for you to actually see than to read about it.
It doesn't really matter if you know how to do it or not. I encountered people who admitted that it was their first oral and they still did great.
Besides, they may do it a certain way to someone and it works for him ... doesn't mean that it would work for me. So basically it's something you may have to relearn with your partner.
Tip: Careful with the teeth ;)
Have a nice day! :)
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reader, cumasoon  +, writes (27 October 2008):
hi i would wait for him to ask an remember always first time for everything just close ur eyes an relax its hard i no but try first with a toy or fruit
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