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female
age
36-40,
*ute_mandy
writes: Im 19 and he is 43 i love him to bits. It all started last year when i had just got out of a 3 year relationship he just cam into my life he had been in a similar relationship as me and was treated badly and now he is out of it just like me. We went to a pub and had a drink and a talk and we just clicked straight away we had a great night we didnt have sex or anything for ages as we where both afraid. I feel for him so quick i was thinking how could you fall in love with someone so quick. I was relly afraid of what my parents would say as he is the same age as my dad. But when we went in and told my parents to my suprise they didnt mind they said once im happy and he treats me right thats all that matters. But then i found out he had a daughter the same age as me it made things hard because i had went to school with her and she wasnt happy that her dad was with me. So we finished in October as there was too much unhappyness. So last week i got a phone call from him and now we are back toghter his daughter has moved out now so we can be happy i never stopped thinking about him i love him to bits and want to spend the rest of my life with him he is the one for me. I just feel that to many people are saying that im a gold digger and after his money and all that but i have my own job and my own money i dont need his. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE ?????????
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reader, darksecretangel +, writes (18 June 2007):
Hun.
Im glad you've found some one that you love. Are people actually saying that you are a gold digger or are you being a tad paranoid. Sweety if these people are calling you a gold digger ignore it, you and your beau obviously know its not true, the people who are saying this are only jelous anyway because they know how happy you and your beau are.
Tell them to mind their own business, your affiars are your own and they shouldnt be concerned with them only their own.
As long as you have the support of your family and friends then you shouldnt be upset by these comments, because the people who actually matter in your life know the truth.
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