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I'm 17 and want to know if it'll hurt!

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Question - (10 November 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

hii im 17 and i have never been fingerd so i was woundring will it hurt? and will the guy know i havnt been fingerd b4? any advice? :D x

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A female reader, marie78 +, writes (14 November 2006):

It may hurt if you don't relax. Relax your pelvic muscles/ take deep breaths... you'll be fine. If you need him to slow down or take his time, then just tell him. Trust me, you'll be fine... and the discomfort you feel will go away in seconds. No Biggie! Good Luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006):

Why dont you provide for the lube to be available just in case.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):

No it won't hurt and he will not have a clue that you haven't been fingered before, just relax and go with the flow... you will love it... promise! :-)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):

ah bless us girls have all been there, is it a scary situation but relax and i can assure you it will not hurt at all it will be fantastic just make sure he has cut his nails!!!!!

good luck

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