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writes:I am slightly confused recently. I am a seventeen year old girl and though I am 100% sure that I am straight, I just don't get sexually aroused by boys. Sure, it is flattering that ny boyfreind just has to look at me to get an erection but iS that just because he is a male? what is the thought process for a guy to get turned on? Is there one? I don't seem to get wet at all no matter what I try and i don't get butterflies in my stomach the way my friends say they do. I just don't see the attraction of sex. I like the closeness but that's it. Is this normal? Will it get better?
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reader, lubie_lu +, writes (17 July 2006):
im 16 n im excally the same and i have a boyfriend and do not get excited at all about sex i no this post was no help but ur not the only 1.
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reader, Granny +, writes (16 July 2006):
 Dear girl, yes, you are totally normal. Some people are what we call "late developers" - either physically or emotionally. I too was like you and lost my virginity before I was really ready and that was a very sad event. I regret that. Explain very carefully to your bf that you are not yet ready for sex. Do not let yourself be pressured into it. Enjoy the petting and it will get better. Good sex is not a target and you will not get a medal for it. It just happens when it is right. Wait until it is right for you. Your time will come. But never forget - you are perfectly normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2006): Some are turned on by different things. You may find you actually are turned on by things that aren't even sexual. (I must say looking at a guys sexual organs does nothing for me) It's the way they whisper in my ear etc. that gets me going. When was the last time you were turned on? Do you know why? I'm sorry I'm not much help. There is nothing wrong with you that's for sure, you just haven't found what turns you on yet. you're just 17 things will get better when you get older and get a bit more experience - it may be the kind of guy that turns you on (kinky, bondage style etc.) You'll find your weakness soon :)
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