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Is she waiting on me to make the first move or...should I just forget her now?

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Question - (1 January 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ufc987 writes:

Please re-read my other questions to refresh your memory if you want, but the last few weeks the same thing has been happening but i do feel im getting closer if you get me. all her mates have been doing the same sort of tricks, by tricks i mean her mates always seem to let her know im around and they always try to stand her next to me as for example last weekend i saw her with her friends

and when they all walked past in one of the bars one of her friends moved her right next to me, this was made certain as i heard her friend tell her to "stand there" and this seems to happen alot. i have been confused by the way she acts around me, sometimes but mostly when im not looking she strokes my hair, and just usually lets me know shes around but she dosent talk she usually walks off making me do the talking but sometimes she completely blanks me when i look at her but the thing that really got to me last week was that after talking to her for a while i saw her on the dance floor getting with another lad. All that hope of her liking me and confusion for ages and then she does that. What should i do now? should i forget her or is she doing this to make me make the first move?

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (1 January 2008):

dearkelja agony auntYes, silly. She was waiting. She by now probably thinks you are not interested in her. It's fairly obvious her friends know she likes you. What are you waiting for? If you like her why didn't you ask her to dance when she was standing next to you? We women have been told over and over to let the guys make the first move as you lads don't like pushy women.

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