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writes:My question is basically why can't i get a boyfriend!!! I am completely normal looking, 5'8, i row and do track, have good grades, and am an outgoing talkative person with have lots of friends. I try to go after a guy and then i decide i don't like him anymore, so then things move really slow and he moves on.. the one guy i honestly feel like a relationship could have happened he just moved away..i see all these other people in relationships and i'm wondering if there is something that i am doing wrong?? or have i just not met the right guy? im very discouraged.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emjo  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 I'm sure it's not you. You sound like a lovely person and there is no reason why you don't have a boyfriend.
Perhaps you don't feel ready in yourself yet to pursue anyone? There is no rush to be in a relationship, you are only 16 there is plenty of time. It could also be that the right guy still hasnt come a long, perhaps you just need to keep looking and never settle for second best. When the right guy comes along and you feel ready I'm sure you'll fall into a relationship naturally. Good luck!
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reader, Elydiese +, writes (4 July 2010):
Its because your pushing yourself to be in a relationship, why do you feel like you need a boyfriend, if you feel that you need to be with someone its usually because your not happy on your own, stop pressuring yourself to find someone because everyone else is in a relationship i know how it feels wanting to have someone else there, but it'll coe you've just got to wait for the right person
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