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writes:hi.I'm 15 yrs old and totally confused about love..ya see my problem is I seem to love alot of lads and don no why or who to go for so that were i need your help so plez help me...theres this lad i wrk wit recently i never used to fancy him bu sence started wrkin wit him i do i think bout him alot now bu i still don no if i like him lik that...then theres my ex he's 14 yrs old and i still love him to bits even tho we broke up last yr well no my so called best friend at the time did she asked for my fone one night when we were going to a disco so she could txt her da but until the nxt mornin i did'n relise she had txt my boyfrind and told him i wanted to break up,i tried to tell him i diid'n txt him that bu his family already knew and i did'n think they wanted me makein anymore troble than i did so i gave up its bein a yr sebce now and i just heard he wanted me back not sure if its ture yet but id love to give it ago again.........then theres jay,nd gags i don no why i lik them is it normal to love so many at once????and what should i do about my ex move on or see if he likes me and try again......??please help me im soooooooo confused xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don no wat i want u c?
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reader, Cascara  +, writes (15 June 2007):
Isn't it do you think you should go after your ex again. If you are asking for advice on this it probably means you dont want him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionATOMICKEG~ do you think i should go for my ex again????oh and tanx every1 for helpin xxxxxxx
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reader, VyRuZ  +, writes (12 June 2007):
Heh...Try to put them on a ladder. Which one's higher ?Starting relations with ex's always suck so you shoulnd't go that way.To answer your main question, yes, it's pretty normal to like a lot of people. You're 15 and raging with hormones. Thing is, like poster above said, don't play the I-like-you-i-don't-like-you-i-want-you-back-etc. game.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): look, you are obviously very young still. there are many different meanings of love. love just does not have one definition. it means a variety of things and conceptions on each differnt individaul and couple. so overall, get over it and find something that you cherish. love is many things with different meanings...... love goes on endlessly...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): heya, you are still so young and at this moment in time love is too strong you just fancy these guys like mad but can you ever see yourself with your ex or is it time to just move on and to find someone who likes you back i would say your best friend was jelouse of your relationship with him but she didnt have to go do that and even though it was good that you tryed to patch it up with him he moved on. Maybe you should do the same even though you do have strong feelings for him and its rumours the same about you what if people are stirring this up? because they no how you feel about him maybe you should confront him if he does or not then you will know where you stand with him and if not you should move on. hope this helps x
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reader, wildturkey  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 your 15 and learning what relationships are all about.
1. your dont need a boyfriend and there is nothing wrong with likeing more than one person esp at your age. personaly i think that a major part of growing up is learning about yourself, this can be easyer when your not in a relationship.
2. if u really like your ex then you have the option of doing the mature thing and talking honestly with him and sorting it out. This is an important skill to learn for future relationships.
But there is no right or wrong answer, and this is only 2 options.
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reader, Cascara +, writes (12 June 2007):
Ok well you probably don't love any of them, you like/fancy them but nothing more, which is why you like so many people at the same time.
I hope your not still friends with that girl as its not good to have people in your life who are so destructive.
About your ex why don't you meet up with him and find out how you both feel and see if there is a chance for a reconcilliation.
That way if it doesnt work out with him you can see hoe you feel about the others.
hope this helps
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