I'm 15 and pregnant but I'm afraid that my mom will want nothing to do with me....please help

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so im kinda new at this "advice" thing so please take it easy on me........okay so my bf and i have been together for going on 11 months and one week after my birthday on 2-28 i broke my virginity..later we had sex again and started to do it more (unprotected)...i am 15 and my boyfriend is 18 and he says that he wants a family and i really believe he does...soo we used the method of "pulling out" and it was going good until one day i told him that a little got on me but i wasnt sure how much...so we started thinking about having a baby and we started preparing...1 week later we took a test and it came up negative but by then we had already got our hopes up on having a child so instead of getting birth control, like we had planned to do if the test showed up neative, we decided to try again but on purpose this time...so we continued to try and we had sex a few weeks later and instead of pulling out he just "let it out" inside of me..he didnt tell me til i asked him the next day because he wanted it to be a surprise so that when i took the test it came up positive and i would be happy...so as we continue to try we continue to plan...we are now planning on moving in together soon and are expecting a baby.....Here's where the problem comes in at: My mom is a very cool person but for something like this to happen she would just go crazy...we decided to tell her about it when i start showing and when we have the apartment ready....im scared to tell her because the type of person she is she would beat me and put me out...im worried that shes gonna hurt my unborn baby and me. My bf and i are really in love and i can really see myself with him for the rest of my life...but at the same time i really want my mom to be in my childs life because it will be her first grandchild..but im afraid that she wont want anything to do with me or my baby..i just want to know what i should do...should i just get it over with and deal with her not being in my life or should i beg her to just be there..she doesnt have to spend any money on my baby because i know for a fact that she wont but i just want to see my mothers face in the delivery room when i have my baby..i want to hear her tell me and my bf congradulations even if she doesnt mean it..im going to be dying for my mothers love and support even though she will probably be ashamed at me i just want her to be there when that day comes...

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