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writes:I have an amazing boyfriend. He's sweet and he loves me and trusts me, but I seem to have trouble trusting him. Some of his friends that are girls have reputations for being sluts, etc, and I have caught one of them with a few of my guy friends before. I tried explaining to him why it bothers me when he is with them, but he said I should just trust him. I know I should, he's had many chances to be unfaithful and hasn't done anything, so how can I make myself trust him more?Also, is it strange to be turned on by breathing sounds? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Breathing sounds? Yes, my girlfriend can turn me on with breathing/moaning sounds very easily. She overuses it sometimes to make me get turned on in public XD!
About trust
you would trust more if you weren't afraid of losing him.
Fear is a way of protecting yourself (if you ever break up; this way you would get less hurt)
But, if you don't open your heart completely, then again you would break up..
so there are only 2 options:
1.open your heart, don't be egocentric and try to soften the pain of loss by shielding yourself (not trusting 100%)
2.if you don't want to open your heart shield yourself, be afraid, don't trust him, break up
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice.
We've been together almost 11 months now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Its not strange to be turned on by breathing sounds.
You have to build up trust, so it will take time, but if he trust you then try hard and do the same back. I know it is hard when they hang around with the people that we dont want them to hang around with, but we cannot control them. It is up to him who he hangs around with (within reason) Just cut him some slack and enjoy your relationship. You are quite young to be worrying about such adult stuff. And should be out in the world enjoying life.
take care
xx
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