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writes: Hi, I've been single my whole life and I what out. My friends and family say that I'm beautiful and that guys are just nervous. If thats the cause then why do guys go out with girls that are prettier than me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): I agree jay12toes, not all guys are dogs, in fact some of them are very nice and can be even nicer than women sometimes.
Anyway back to the question. It dosen't really matter if your ugly or beautiful, there's someone out there for everybody, but forget about boyfriends for the moment and start looking at finding boys that are friends. This will help you understand what boys like and don't like and understand their minds and thoughts. It will also give you exposure to them and them to you. They will get to know you as well, and once they know you, I'm sure that one of them will like your personality and decide to ask you out.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (14 June 2008):
 DocDell not all guys are dogs.
now on to the question, i understand how you feel. when no one asks you out and see other people in relationships it makes you feel unwanted and lonely. many of us just want to feel loved or at least wanted. and when we dont feel those things we begin to think less of ourselves and our self esteem begins to lower. if this sounds like you then read on. a good way to start is by becoming friends with a couple of guys, a boy will want you more if he feels like he knows you and thinks your fun to be around. now if theres a specific guy you would like to go out with then you subtly hint to him. like start asking if he thinks him and so andso would make a good couple and list off a couple of girls and then ask him if he thinks you and him would make a good couple. even if he dousnt get the hint it will help you find out what he thinks about you. if you would like to talk to more about this then send me a message sometime. i hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Ok, be happy you are single, all a relationship is, anger arguments, and its just very stressful, you are still young, there is no need to worry, you don't need a guy to be happy, guys are all dogs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): If you were my "little" girl, and I know you will hate that phrase, I will want to wrap you in cotton for as long as I could. "14 and still single"....vow, you want to be single....untill you are at least 21, enjoy life, have lots of friends, study, travel; Discover yourself, and then start thinking about relationships.
It seems that everybody thinks they must get hooked the sooner the better....maybe you can help me here and explain that to me.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and as you mature, you will realize that there is a beauty that the eye does not know, the "innersoul".
You have a beautifull life ahead of you, enjoy your freedom and youth!
Be different, and enjoy your youth!
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reader, silvia{love}  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 reason why guys dont ask girls could be..yes because they are nervous{jst like you were told}.thats not only the reason....the impression you give alwayz have an effect on people you know. also your attitude towards people{in this case guyz}could make them decide wheather or not to ask you out. and the part where you said guyz askin girls prettier than you out really did put me off!who told you other girls are prettier than you?never look down on youself and never let any1 make you feel bad about youself. you're 14 and girl youve got plenty of time ahead of you and you gona have guyz beggin you to go out with them has you advance through life so my only advice.....enjoy your time as a 14teen year old!
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