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writes:hey guys.thing is there is this guy I like, he's 18 and I'm 14, he sed he likes me and I like him too and he asked me if i'd go out with him. I said yes, he also said that he would push me into anything and would respect me, (I would let him push me into anything I wasn't comfortable with anyway lol), but I don't know how to tell my mum, any tips?also if you were a mum would you be happy about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 March 2009):
 First off you don't TELL your mother you ASK your mother. And if she has any sense she will tell you NO not until you are older. I don't think 14 year olds should be dating period and certainly not an adult.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009):
Physical maturity is not the same as emotional or mental maturity.
This is a bad idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): This is wrong, coming from a 19yr old with a 13yr old sister. Don't listen to Olivia Y, any mum that's alright with their daughter dating a 18yr old has a huge problem and you shouldn't insult 18 year old boys by saying their on the same level as a 14 year old girls. Keep away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): i was 13 he was 19 and he needed a babysitter his wife and him had odd hours so i helped out we got caute doing it in the car he was taking me home he went to jail now is a sex affender and a fellon for 15 years he cant see his kids or have a good job he drives truck he has 4 girls now im 25 hes 32 we have a babe boy together did i mention hes my first cousin ........ leave him alone u and him can waite till the age is leagley rite...there my 2 cents
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (16 March 2009):
 My friend has the same problem as you. Girls mature faster than boys so you are at the same maturity level as an 18 yr old boy!
I am 14 aswel and my boyfriend is 17. I just told my mum and she seems fine with it and lets him sleep round whenever he wants and she loves him to bits.
Mums are more understanding than you think. If you are open and honest with her she should be okay with it. She might be a bit worried but its only because she cares for you. You will also get the horrible Don't have sex talk.
Good luck babe :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009): if i was your mum, you would have one ugly mum. Aside from that I would not be happy about it.
I would talk to her and explain and ask what you should do. Just say "Mum, help - i fancy this guy and he is a little older than me - should i see him or not."
Star.x.
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