A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear AllI'm 14 and I have feelings for this 12 (nearly 13) year old young lady and vice versa, she is very mature.Do you feel it's appropriate to have such an age difference, I don't mean this in an inappropriate way I mean to be loving one another appropriately (hugging being b and g friend etc).Adults do see us as both very mature and sensible.I would apreciate your views.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, myp  +, writes (4 July 2007):
 2 years is NOTHING. Its perfectly fine to be her boyfriend.
As far as "loving", if your gong to do anything of a sexual nature wait till shes at least 13, and make sure your both absolutely ready.
best of luck
-Myesha
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female
reader, deejuliet +, writes (4 July 2007):
 Absolutely, it is appropriate for you to be this young ladies boyfriend. The age differance is not too great and since you both seem to be sensible enough to know that being boyfriend/girlfriend at this age doesnt involve anything sexual in nature, I say go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDear everyoneThanks for your swift replies, they are much appreciated!CheersP.S flower girl, apologies I didn't make it clear in my words I totally agree where your coming from that’s what I mean by 'I don't mean this in an inappropriate way'. But thanks for the advice. ;) I fully understand where you’re coming from! :)
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female
reader, love-him +, writes (3 July 2007):
 wow u do seem mature..go for it babe.. x x x
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female
reader, flower girl +, writes (3 July 2007):
 I dont think there is any problem with the age difference, it is after all not that bigger gap, as long as you both apprieciate that you are too young for anything sexual.
If you like her go for it.
Take care.xx.
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