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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing my boyfriend for 9 months and lately we haven't been getting on so well and I don't know why because it is all coming from his end. It's become so bad over the last couple of weeks that the other day he just flew off the handle at the slightest thing. We were at a train station and he nipped to the loo and I waited for him. During this time some guy came up to me and was chatting me up and trying to get my number but I told him no. When my boyfriend saw us he automatically assumed the worst and though it was me trying it on with the other guy. By the way I have never done anything that could mean that my boyfriend should not trust me and he never used to be so distrustful of me before. Later on when I tried to talk to him about it he doesn't want to bring up the subject. Is this a relationship that we won't be able to fix because i have fallen in love with him and I want to try and make it work but everyone is telling me that without trust we are doomed? what should i do next? Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Ask him why he thinks what you are saying isn't true. Find out where the lack of trust comes from. Most guys who see a guy chatting their girlfriend up would see red and get angry, but would listen to their girlfriend explain what had gone on. Your boyfriend doesn't even seem to want to give you the benefit of the doubt. Once you find out why your boyfriend thinks there was something more with the other guy you can work together on fixing it. Trust can be gained!
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