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writes: I just realised that i dont really know how to be a a girlfriend!How do u be a gf?What do you do to make you be a gf?What kinds of things do you do to show your bf that?I'd anything! everything! i really want to be a good gf!(im 14) Reply to this Question
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reader, Yos  +, writes (2 November 2006):
 At your age its really just the same as having a female best friend. Except that they are a boy! Do fun things together, talk about your lives and your feelings, sit around the house and watch TV and relax together, and hang out with your friends too. Just do what you normally like to do, but do it with him.
Some kissing is nice too, if you are comfortable with it. But I recommend you wait to do anything more sexual until you are older, almost everyone who goes far sexually at your age ends up regretting it and wishing they'd waited longer. It can sometimes feel like everyone else is having sex, especially with so much of it on the TV and in magazines, but in reality most people don't have sex until 17 or 18 or older, which is a much better age for it as you're much more mature and independent then, and able to handle all the complex emotions that come with sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006): i agree. just make sure you communicate clearly and dont be fake. if you dont want to do anything, dont do it. if the guy gets mad and tries to force you or make you feel bad so you do it, then dump him. he is only using you. otherwise, just stay together for a while, and no matter what, dont ever, ever ever, ever cheat on him. if you like someone else, then honestly it is not working between you two, and make sure you tell him. just enjoy the moments, and dont do anything youll regret...
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (2 November 2006):
 Just be a friend. Everything else will come naturally. . . in time. Relax, and enjoy your teen years. There's no rush to become anyone's girlfriend.
Good luck!
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