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writes:Hey,i like this guy, i've known for about 2 years.he's in 9th grade and im in 8thhe's my best guy friend. and is amazingly sweet. i talk to him every day, for about an hour or more.all my friends say he likes me, and we would be so cute.but, i don't want to ruin our friendship, and it would be hard to see him because we're at diffrent schools. and i can't date till' i'm 16..the thing is though, i'll see him at school next year, but that will be like 5 months. and what if that's to late??so, what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (17 March 2008):
 Ask him out.
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reader, Stroller  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 I don't know how old you are if you're in the 8th grade, but it sounds like you've got 5 months before you're allowed to date him. I'd just ask him if he'll like to be your boyfriend-in-waiting.
It sounds like you'd be good together, and if you talk for an hour at a time, then you should be able to approach a "serious" topic like this. A faint heart never won the prince, and if you don't take risks you'll never get what you want. Honestly, if you want to date him, and he doesn't want to date you then it's not really a "friendship" (those situations are always more like one side getting their ego polished on the other's crush) so you've got nothing to lose by asking. I know it prolly doesn't feel like it, but the best way is always to get on with it and ask, rather than spend ages worrying about it.
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reader, kutie0712 +, writes (16 March 2008):
Hey dont ruin a friendship. talk to one of his friends. see what he really thinks of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): if your certain he really likes you and you really like him i think you should go for it. Unless you value his friendship really highly then it is a risk because you if you break up or have arguments your friendship may never get back to how it was.
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