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Can you love someone but be unable to understand WHY??

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Question - (16 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hiii

this is quite a strange question, but is it normal to have NO IDEA why you love someone?

the thing is, i've really really liked the same guy for like 2 and a half years. he's in my year at school (year 10) and (luckily haha) no other girls like him.

i mean, i have no clue why i like him so much.

he's sooo annoying, he's not really the best looking guy, he's weird, we're practically total opposites, yet whenever im around him i go bright red and the butterflies are going off in my stomach and my heart beats soooo fast im scared it'll explode.

all my friends know i like him and they have no idea why im so attracted to him.

haha has anyone else had this before?

:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

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haha yay im glad to know im not alone!

thanks for your replies guys!

:)x

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A female reader, Krystelle United Kingdom +, writes (17 March 2008):

i have it even now. infact all the things are pretty much the same. the guy i like is selfish, full of himself, treats me like shit infront of his friends. yet i still love him. yes, love! its been about 3 years to be fair.

hes a popular type who likes getting pissed on friday nights and craves of rave music. im totally opposite.

so nope your not alone

xoxo

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (17 March 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntOpposites attract!

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A male reader, Stroller United Kingdom +, writes (16 March 2008):

Stroller agony auntYes, I think this is not unusual at all. You need to quit waiting & start doing something about his shyness.

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