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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello women... If you have high self esteem and chose to recreate yourself as a 24 year old guy, what are all the qualities, looks, and attitudes you would choose to have that trigger a strong gut level (or should I say groin level) desire in women? And maybe more importantly, what wouldn't you have that many average guys have? Ignore what anyone else thinks. Two rules. 1) You can't have a super hot body, or model good looks, and 2) no fake stuff (whatever that is).Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): Forget about what women say they want. Pay attention to who they are actually going to bed with. It's a completely diffferent subject.
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reader, Andulikeittoo +, writes (16 December 2010):
 I would be tall (6'2) have straight white teeth, smart and an amazing personality, can't ask for more.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 To trigger women? Well.. If I was a male, and Im not making this up on the go... For years I have had fantasies about being a man, and I've pretended to be one online as well, to act out that "other half" of a man I'd desire to be. So I will base this on how I actually think I'd be as a man. My goal as a man would not be to attract as many women as possible! So I might not be your best person to ask this...
But here's some qualities that I'd have:
-I'd be honest, loyal, and faithful
-good listener, and a gentleman
-I'd love it when I can make a woman smile or laugh, not dependent on whether I could get her to bed or not (this is actually true, when I've role played a man Im really happy when I get to make the woman in my company happy, Im not that way normally as a female towards males)
-genuineness
These traits I've also come to found works like magnets on women in certain settings, especially the ones who are usually attracted to the "bad boy". Remind you I've just listed the good traits now, I'd probably have many bad sides too.
Qualities I wouldn't have that most men have at that age group.. honesty I don't know of many common traits among guys. They are all different. And I'd probably have the same bad traits as well. Oh, well except one: I wouldn't be interested in sports. And sports do bore a lot of women to death.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Ok, so then I guess the best I would be allowed is a body that I can work with/on and a reasonable face. So, this is how I would be:
- I would make my body hot by going down the gym / pool at least 4-5 times a week - I would be a gym-nut
- I would use expensive facial products - but in a slap-it-on, guy kind of way - and therefore make the best of my face
- I would be the kind of guy who had a good hairdresser, shopped in good shops (mid expensive to expensive/exclusive) and had good shoes and clothes in general - style relaxed but sharp
- I would be physically-minded, and excellent at putting up shelves and doing gardens and fixing cars and all that guy stuff - a quiet perfectionist, but with perspective, so not at all anal about it - quietly confident ... able to smile ... not proving anything, as totally sure of myself
- I would have a car that spoke total quality - kept immaculately clean
- I would have my life organised: I would take time to read papers, watch certain programmes always, hang out with friends, go looking around bookshops on Sunday afternoons
- I would have an eye to my social life, but also value being at home - with my girlfriend, as I probably would have one - but if single, I would be cool with that
- I would be excellent with animals and children
- I would have a v healthy bank balance and be v careful with money (and therefore able to buy expensive gifts for my girl) (which I would do, generously, but not too often as to spoil her)
- I would like older women for their strange combination of sortedness and vulnerability
- I would travel quite often, and daringly
- I would possibly already own a second home in another country - maybe a chalet in the mountains somewhere
- I would be a qualified pilot
ok ok. i will stop. this is turning into the Milk Tray Man ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): If I was going to be a great guy I would be looking for more than something "groin level"
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