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writes:Does sex hurt the first time?I'm asking this because my friend told me that it hurts A LOT! I'm scared now. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): it depends really, on how wet you get, and how big he is, my first time didnt hurt at all, i could feel him go inside me and i winced a little bit but it wasnt pain, and they it was just really enjoyable but before you have sex, maybe do some foreplay to get you moist, and if that doesnt work then use lube just make ure your not dry cause it could possinly hurt, but like i said it depends, just dont be scared its gotta happen one day, just relax and enjoy!
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reader, rivi +, writes (26 December 2010):
It doesn't HAVE to hurt, and certainly not 'A LOT'
What matters is if you are comfortable and relaxed and you really want to do it with the guy in question.
That's the first thing. Then you need somewhere totally private where you know no one's going to come in or knock at the door.
Then you need to be sure you're totally protected against pregnancy : condom is essential but best to be on Pill as well ( or be a few days either side of yr period ).
Then have plenty of lube if you don't get v moist when sexually aroused. Then ask him to just touch the tip - 1st inch - of his erection into you until you feel comfortable to take the whole length - prob 6 inches - inside you....
You should actually enjoy it.......
You do enjoy masturbating ? Have you tried getting him to put a dildo or maybe two fingers inside you ? If you enjoy that and it gets your vagina moist or wet..... well you are well on the way to the most fantastic experience ever.......
ENJOY !!!!!
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