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female
age
26-29,
*lueless and confused
writes:Dear aunt agony,There's a guy I met last year and I still have a big crush on him. I am friends with his family so I really don't want to make things awkward between us. When we met we became interested in each other and we talked everyday and he actually asked me out a couple of times , but then he met this girl for whom he's been crushing on ever since. So i decided to move on but every time I did he got really jealous and asked me not to leave him and not to stop talking to him because I meant so much to him. And even though nothing ever happened between us he kept sending mixed signals and even telling my friends that he liked me. A few months ago I had athing with this other guy and so he got really furious and told me I shouldn't have done it and got eally jealous again. I don't understand what he wants because we've talked about it a few times and he always says that if we become more than frieds things will get very awkward and one of us wil end up hurt, but every time I try to move on he doesn't let me.The worst thing is that I have to go to school with him by car once a week , so if something happens and he rejects m then everything would get really awkwardShoul I make a move or should I forget him once and for all?
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (10 September 2012):
 Maybe the time has come for you to ask him outright where things are at.
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reader, clueless and confused +, writes (10 September 2012):
clueless and confused is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both.
Today I spent some more time with him and I'm really affraid I might be falling for him again. we just flirt a lot. Or is it just me making up stuff? I honestly think hes showing some interest. Next month I'm actually going to a party at his house what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): I think he is just acting silly. You aren't even dating. Who is he to. Tell u what to do.
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reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (9 September 2012):
If he's not your boyfriend, he has no right to tell you who you can and can't see, so tell him it's none of his business.
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