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*picolee2002
writes: I had a bad accedent at work and I suffer from it erectional dysfunction but not all the time. Sometimes id be right in the middle of the forplay and wham I go soft. My dr told me its the meds I'm on. Im on alot of morphine and others. I have prescriptions to make it go away. It works good to. I told her many times it's not her fault and I get fustrated about it as much as she does. She won't talk to me about it either because there expensive to use. I just said if she's getting frisky and I can't get it going to let me know because I can take this pill and be ready in 20 mins. There like 12 bucks each and I tryed using them without telling her however we never had sex and I was hard and broke for nothing. Why can't most women be opened minded and just realize that it really is nothing and the more she makes a big deal about it makes it harder on me to not think its going to happen again. I love her but she does not do for play or do things that turn us on or me. It's like she touches me and I'm suppost to be hard right now well I'm in my fortys and I need te and help to get hard. I just want her to know its not her fault but it goes in one ear and out the other. She never lets me see her naked either. When she has a shower she just shuts the door and covers herself up. When she goes to bed she wears swet pants and a t shirt. I'm her husband and I walk around naked if I just got out of the shower. I love her and hate that she has to cover herself up. Also no positions but missionary style and she says her knees hurt but I miss just doing what ever that comes to mind. I love her so much n much but I have not got sex in 3 months now. I can see why guys go to hookers now. People need sex and I'm one to. Me being limp or trying to hard could do something's. She really hates sex and by the way I can't even get it going because she pushes me away. This is for women. Does this erection thing ruin relationships. Why is it a big deal. We have great love Mali g and I just don't get it. I want her but I can't have her. Thanks for reading and please mostly women answers but if your a guy and went through it to I'd live to know what you did. Peace from Canada.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): This is not a problem with your erection, it is a problem with the marital relationship.Go to MC and work on the marriage relationship.People who cannot have erections at all often have fabulous sexual relationships (not just old men but lesbians as well).There is way more to this than your erectile dysfunction.
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reader, spicolee2002 +, writes (10 September 2012):
spicolee2002 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYour not getting the question. This can be fixed by a pill and it always works but why is it a big deal to use them. It does not happen all the time but the sex is boring to. It needs to be hot and passionate by kissing romanticly and touching and forplay. I think there's just way to much put on us men to perform right now at that second. That's all I was saying. Thanks for your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2012): It's obviously a problem to try and have sex with a flaccid penis. I mean I'd be really frustrated if my man kept losing his erection, and that would make me lose interest in sex over time. I don't blame your wife. And going to a hooker is a terrible idea. You'd be cheating on your wife because YOU have a problem. It's hardly her fault that you can't get it up.
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